Friday, March 6, 2009

Turning 30....

So.... I turned 30 yesterday.... I thought I was so ready to make the big change, but as it turned out.. I was wrong (it's been known to happen from time-to-time....) I really want to embrace the new decade- a new "matureness" if you will, but when I woke up yesterday, all I could imagine was how my younger, 20- something self would see me now- married, 2 kids, looking like every other 30 year old woman... how boring??!!
Although, I try to be as "hip" as I can, I know my 20-something self would freak if she knew I sometimes wear my slippers to preschool- hello.... where are the Manolo's?? Not saying I am "frumpy" by any means- it's just that my 20-something self was a different person. It's hard to leave her behind.
What's a "woman" to do? Ahh-Ha- I bring her along for the ride- it's me, but better.... so now I am going to embrace the 30's (still don't like the sound of that- but I am trying...) I am leaving part's of my 20's behind (for good reason...) but am bringing the spunky, high heel friend with me :) I don't have to shop at Chadwick's, I can still be that "cool" mom, only now I will be "sexy" because of my new found "matureness." I can do it- I can be 30, a Mommy, and flaunt around in my heels. I hope to inspire new 30-somethings all around me....
Me at 30

Ahh... the power of Facbebook.... through facebook, I have gotten in touch with a girl that was my BFF in highschool. Sadly, we drifted apart after graduation and haven't really talked for about 9 years!! Wow! Anyway, we have been emailing one another now, and to my wonderful surprise yesterday, I had 4 dozen roses sent to my house... from HER! No one has ever taken me by surprise that way- it made my day, that's for sure :) They are beautiful..... thanks, Dee :)


Was just bored here...


1 comment:

The Pack of 6 +1 Angel: said...

Mel! I am a bad friend...Happy belated B-day! I think I remembered last year but well this year I think I would leave my head somewhere if it weren't attached! Reading your 30's post made me laugh...it sounded like the thoughts of whats her face from sex in the city!! HAHA Oh I hope I will embrace thirty as well as you are "trying" to! It is just around the corner...well almost! Well just so you know you are one of the HOTTEST 30 year old's I know!! I could be so lucky to look half as good as you do then and NOW! ;-) hehehe Love ya and miss you!!! Eleisha